Monthly Archive: November, 2009

Guest Blogger, Elle: Major Side Eye, Am I Wrong?

Hello my blog fam, today’s post comes courtesy of one of my bffs and frequent commentator Ms. Elle.  Please give her a warm welcome and your feedback because you all give some very… Continue reading

Self Sabotage, Who Me?!

  ***REPOST, This one is old, but I re-read it and wanted to share.*** SELF SABOTAGE: when there is no logical or rational explanation for why you can’t do the things you want… Continue reading

Sometimes, I’m Michael Phelps!

“The one who loves the least, controls the relationship.” Some women chase men.  Some make men feel like they’re the best thing since sliced bread, they can get away with anything.  I’ve seen… Continue reading

Professor Nikki & The Diabolical Biatch

*Found a box in the corner of my mind.  It’s dusty.  I blow the dust off, cough, wipe the rest of the residue off with my hands.  I rub my hands on my… Continue reading

Harlem Blues

I fell in love with this song when I was about 15 or 16 years old.  I remember hearing it on a drive to Calgary with my aunt and uncle.  I closed my… Continue reading

Nik, What’s Gotten Into You? Ask Your Daddy!

MM: “TF Nik?” Nik: “WTF do you mean TF?” MM: “More Head Than A Dread? Seriously?!” Nik: “What’s wrong with that?” MM: “What’s gotten into you?” Nik:  “____ I mean this in the… Continue reading

My Wish For You

Lastnight I was laying in bed and thinking about my childhood, my parents’ actions, and the ripple effect it’s had on my life.  There are so many Black children who’ve never heard their… Continue reading


So I was tagged by Nightfall of Blu Flame Blvd. Please check him out if you haven’t already done so.  You’ll learn something new, laugh, and/or feel enlightened.  Thank you luv.  So I… Continue reading

Protected: Make Him Feel Good Pt. IV: More Head Than A Dread, My Yout!

There is no excerpt because this is a protected post.

It’s Because of the Ring, My Precious

FIERCENESS “Love the one you’re with if you can’t be with the one you love.”  How would you feel if that was the reason your man or woman was with you?  What if… Continue reading