This WTF Moment is brought to you by letters F&G for “FISH GREASE”. It’s hotter than fish grease in this damn house! Ironic, I had fish for dinner! Whew.
Gonna start out by saying this was inspired by a conversation with my boy. Been meaning to speak on it for awhile and get others opinions.
I’ve previously blogged about men who can’t stick to their word. The one’s who say they’ll call you and it takes them a couple hours or days to get back to you. Irritating right? Well the thing is it irritates me for only so long. We all have our breaking points right? I’m like an elastic band. You can stretch me for only so long until I snap and sting your ass!
I know a lot of these simple ass men think because you love, care for, and/or are just plain sprung on that good peen that he can treat you however they want to. You know the ones who you’re pissed off with and when you finally see him or get him on the phone he’s laughing it off and not taking your feelings seriously. Acting like you’re the Sanaa to his Wesley with the whole Disappearing Acts routine.
With some people ‘Absence make the heart grow fonder.” With me I’m gonna keep it short, simple, and 100 with you simple ass men, “Absence makes my heart grow fonder no longer!”
I’m not saying I give up that easily on someone I love, but if I just luv you not LOVE you then I’m not going to stress myself out wondering where you, what you’re doing or WHO you’re doing. That’s not my style. I pride myself on that ish. Some call me stubborn for not giving in and calling, but hey, I’m just not that broad. If I love you and you have a legit reason for always being MIA, we YOU can work on that. I’ll understand for awhile, but if I’m always on the backburner and you’re always absent then, some sort of re-evaluation of priorities needs to get done.
Some men just need to take the time to realize that they wouldn’t like it if someone treated their mother, sister, cousin, or best female friend the way they treat their own women! I guess that’s what being a mature, intelligent, male is about it. Personally, if we give it a month or two after explaining my feelings about your constant absence and things haven’t changed, love or no love…
I’ll straight up MTV NEXT BUS YOU!
So does absence make your heart grow fonder or do you just get annoyed, frustrated, or hurt and move on?
Nikks (insert devil horns here!)