I do! Do you really?
I’m sitting here at the kitchen counter, was about to make some brown sugar oatmeal, find a flight, and check my work e-mail, but being the procrastinator that I am, I checked twitter first. I came across a blog from CNN called…ugh I forget what it’s called, but it’s about whether or not people deserve to be cheated on!
In my opinion, YES. Some people deserve to be cheated on! For example, that bish Kate. People seem to be very upset with her hubby because he was caught out there. Hold on one fudging minute! I don’t watch the show, I’ll tell you why (I know you didn’t ask, but I’m gonna tell you anyway). I flipped to the channel one day and the five minutes I caught of her snatching his balls off and shoving a hook through them to make earrings was quite enough! He should’ve been out there a long time ago.
Some people deserved to be cheated on because of other reasons too, not just being a bish! I know some people who are just plain lazy, scandalous, or not marriage material. WTF you talking about Nikks? Um, well….if my man is out working and I’m home not doing sh**, there is no excuse my house should be a mess! No reason why dinner isn’t cooked or cooking. No reason the laundry is piled high. If I don’t feel like cooking, then reservations are set.
I’m obviously not a feminist, I’m not old fashioned either, I’m smart. I’ve hung out with friends before who had husbands out working hard while they sat lovely at home doing squat! Husband has to come home and thaw out meat to cook for dinner? You wonder why they cheat? If you don’t handle your sh** another woman will. Sad, but true.
I’m not saying housework isn’t hard or taking care of children isn’t difficult, tiring, and draining. Trust me, I’ve borrowed people’s kids before and could hardly wake up the next day! It’s no joke! HOWEVER, it’s not that difficult, get a routine. My grandmother and grandfather had 11 children together. Mama did it all. Handled the house, cook, clean, wash, iron, comb hair, sew, did farming, all of it, while Papa worked away from home. He was a good man! Perfect example of love and devotion to each other till he passed. Mama did it all solo, no daycare like us spoiled modern women. As yucky as this is, she still obviously found time for romance, 11 children people! I’m just sayin’….
This isn’t all about cooking, cleaning, sex, it’s about so much more. Us women want so much, do we realize that our men need the same things we demand. Knowing that we love them, we encourage them, we’ve got their backs, we’ve got that shoulder they need, those words they want and NEED to hear.
Some women just never learned by example how to be a good wife and mother. How to give love to get love. I’m grateful that I grew up with women around me who were great examples. I hope I can be half of the woman my own mother is.
Sometimes we need to walk up behind him, wrap our arms around him and hold him. ***DISCLAIMER: If your man has been incarcerated and doesn’t talk about his time behind bars, you might want to make noise when approaching him from behind. I’m just saying, one never knows. I don’t want to be responsible for you getting shanked, because you snuck up on him like BIG MIKE!***
Okay in all seriousness. Yes, CNN Blogger, yes, some people deserve it! In cases like Jon & Hate Kate Plus Eight.
We all want the same things at the end of the day; acceptance, love, RESPECT, and appreciation, don’t let it be something you forgot!